I was reading this article and I asked my mom what our church thought about it and she said that our church is against promoting condoms to stop AIDS too. She said our church doesn't believe if a kid has AIDS it's their fault or anything, but she said our church "has absolute standards."
I said, "How can it ever be okay to just let people die when you could do something about it?" and she said, "Becuase sinners have to suffer the natural consequences."
"What if someone gets it through intravenous drugs and then stops using drugs but has AIDS or HIV and wants to get married? Is it okay then?"
"No," my mom said, "the bible says it's better that one sinner die than to compromise absolute standards."
WTF???!!!!!!!!! I can't agree with that. I CAN NOT! People that are gay, even if I grant my church's view that it's wrong, and don't realize it's a sin (although I don't believe it is) do NOT deserve to die! If there is any way we can prevent the deaths of (what I believe are) innocent people, then we should. How can promoting life EVER be a bad thing?
I'm really pissed off at the moment. Even if I believe everything else about my religion, I can NEVER believe that. EVER.
How can anybody believe that?
So we just had this conversation, and I said I could not believe that, and my mom said, "Well then you choose to not be LDS!"
Mormanism is supposed to be perfect in every aspect. I believe 99% of it. How can I ever believe those things though, that gay people are evil, that they should face the consequences of their sins and die? That we shouldn't try to stop AIDS with condoms because it's promoting permiscuity?
It's the first time in my life that I have ever told my parents I don't agree with our religion. I feel really weird.
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I think it's important that we question everything about our religions. It's important to listen to the wisdom of those that came before us, but just as important to get this knowledge and apply it for yourself.
I think we should absolutely love the person no matter what they have done, yet hate the sin that they are committing.
As for the AIDS issues. I think there are much better ways to combat it than giving condoms out to teens. I have a tendency to believe that's going to cause more harm than good..
having cooled off a bit about it i understand my mother's sentiments a bit more. she said it was similar to giving drug users clean needles so they didn't contract diseases like AIDS, and i don't really agree with that.
i don't think handing out condoms is necessarily the best way to prevent AIDS. i just have a hard time with not doing it when i know it could save lives.
i don't know i'm really confused right now.
It's exciting to read about your experiences lindsay. Your teen years (and early 20's) are so confusing.... You think you know yourself, but remember what it was like to be 10.....how much have you changed in 6-7 years? Just imagine how much you'll change in the next 6.
Just keep your eyes open and learn. Never give up.
One of my favorite phrases is this:
The learners shall inherit the world, while the learned shall inherit a world that no longer exists.
that's a really true quote. it is difficult for me to believe it's possible that i will change as much in the next six years as i have in the past six. i have truly gotten to know myself since i was 10, i have begun to understand the world. it's crazy to think that i will understand the world even more, change that much again, in the next six years.
hopefully by then i will understand myself so well that i will be able to take care of myself and survive and have relationships that work and everything.
when you put it like that there really is a lot of hope.
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